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This model works because it takes students through an accountability
process that . . .
- Promotes fairness
Enabling the examination of consequences of decisions through a series of non–pre-judgmental steps. - Focuses on learning from mistakes
Using role reversal to conceptualize pain endured by others. - Develops compassion and empathy
Understanding and acknowledging the impact of words and behaviors. - Teaches the difference between intentions and perceptions
Clarifying how those on the receiving end of hurtful comments and behaviors feel. - Achieves mutual reconciliation
Revisiting, reviewing, reflecting, and taking full responsibility. - Respects and maintains everyone’s dignity
Recognizing accountability does not require loss of dignity while learning how to ask to be forgiven.
Note: Elementary school teachers are encouraged to modify the language to make it developmentally appropriate for their age group.
